The lens through which we see things is of the utmost importance. You can look at something as being the worst thing to happen you. But is there a way to frame it as the best thing that happened to you?
For example, being offered a 30% pay cut to relocate for the same position was immediately perceived as a “worst” moment. However, it became a “best” moment when I used it to fuel my exit from that company and position to a better environment.
